Life

The life is so unpredictable, that the things happen suddenly unexpectedly. We want to feel we are in control but in some ways we are not. Actually we are ruled by forces of chance and coincidence.

My todays episode of spiritual conversation is on LIFE – which is UNPREDICTABLE.

This is one reason of my taking a break on my podcast episodes kindly excuse me for that. What we propose to do God disposes it off.

Indeed life is full of surprises and uncertainties. It can be unpredictable and chaotic at times, while we can’t control everything that happens to us , at least we can choose how we respond to the challenges and opportunities that come our way.

“zindagi ki khasiyat yehi hai , ki jab tak  tum jawab dene layak banoge, Tab tak zindagi sawal hi badal degi.”

So stay open minded , flexible and resilient . Embrace the unpredictability of life with grace and courage. Life is full of twist and turns.

Which I have experienced myself during the break . I learnt ki jeewan hamesha hi apratyashit rahega isliye darr mein jineh ka koi matlab nahin hai.

When life will always be unpredictable then there is no point living in fear.

When you feel the rise of unpleasant emotions, take a moment and make an effort to identify the source . accept such feeling as your own in the moment Do not shove them underneath or ignore them in-fact it’s important to embrace each moment and make the most of every opportunity. It’s about cherishing the present moment cultivating meaningful relationships and finding joy and fulfilment in all aspects of life.

One thing which I learnt is that life is highly unpredictable and sometimes it’s better to go with the flow rather than try to plan everything out.

“kyon ki aakhir mein ye maayne nahin rakhta , ki aapne zindagi mein kitni saansein li , balki ye maayne rakhta hai ki aapne un saaanson mein kitni zindagi ji hai.”

So abandon your planned life to embrace the life that comes your way.

Its ok if you are having a hard time accepting a situation or event, don’t confuse the actual event with your feelings about it. Always accept what you feel even if you can’t accept the reason. WHY ME? Why it was triggered. No one is responsible for your emotional breakout except you. Others can say and do anything they like but what happens inside you is only the result of what you are thinking and feeling.

“Mat soch itna zindagi ke baare mein kyon ki jisneh zindagi di hai, Usneh bhi kuch soch ke hi di hogi.”

Problems and negativity, may be a part of reality, but so is love, positivity, happiness and all the beautiful moments, that make life worth living.

If God wants to give it you, then the blessings will forever have your name on it. That’s why its’ not important to overthink and question the way things unfold in your life. There is a certain timing and purpose attached to each and every circumstances that you face in life .

When you start to build that faith you gain confidence toward your life’s direction . I think faith is incredibly important because you will become overwhelmed with what’s happening and you will have waves of grief , but when you turn towards your faith , I believe God will give you waves of grace to go through it.

Always remember God won’t send you anything which you are incapable of handling rather always believe that there is somebody there to make you stronger. There’s somebody that won’t leave you alone. God is always standing by you. God is unchanging in his love. He loves you. He has plan for your life . when you put your total faith in God no matter what happens person who is a true believer God will always be with him.

Life is full of surprises good or bad

• Health wise one day  you could be perfectly healthy and the next day , you could be diagnosed with a serious illness or might get into an accident that changes your life forever .
• Career wise you might have a solid plan for your career, but unexpected events such as layoffs, company closure or changes in the industry can turn everything upside down.
• Coming to relationships people come and go in our lives, a close friend or partner who suddenly decides to move away or end the relationship leaving you alone and uncertain.
• Last but not the least financial situation one day you could be doing well financially and the next day, you could lose your job or experience a significant financial setback.
• Lastly coming towards natural disasters such as hurricanes, earthquakes or floods can cause a lot of damage disturbing people’s lives. whatever precautions you take there is always a chance that you get affected.

Overall life is unpredictable and there’s no way to know what the future holds. However its essential for us to be adaptable and flexible to cope with unexpected events. Here are some points which can help us deal with unpredictability.

• Always be aware of how you feel
• Focus on short term goals
• Acknowledge what is working
• Recognise your achievements
• Try stay in present moment
• Go with the flow
• Don’t overthink
• Time to  time reframe your thoughts and ideas

Now I believe it’s so important to love life , enjoy it for its small small moments and live without regrets. Life is just like the wheel of fortune constantly turning from positive to negative to positive again .

So why worry? Live it , enjoy it, be happy, have fun, God is there to look after you.

–Om Namaha, Blessings to All–

You can always listing to this and more on my podcast, available on on major streaming platforms “Midididiforever – Spiritual Conversations”