Self Belief and Positive Mindset

The biggest root cause of losing your self-belief, self-confidence is undervaluing your capabilities and overvaluing  others abilities. In this case its simple either you get BETTER or you get BITTER . Now this choice does not belong to fate but it belongs  to you yourself .

Accept self-confidence as an attitude trust yourself and your abilities,

“Jaise bhi hain aap apne ko sweekar kijye aur khud par bharosa rakhiye”.

You may feel inferior  and unloved but being confident in yourself is the only answer to this. Have a positive view of yourself know your strengths and weaknesses.

Having  low or  high self confidence might depend upon the situation. You may feel very confident in some areas of your life . Such as sports , academics, job but lack confidence in maintaining relationship whether it is personal or professional.

Many of us grow up in an unsupportive environment like no friends or family to support.  At this time we start doubting ourselves ,  we start building perceptions and these thoughts lead us to losing our self-esteem.

“Ab jab pataa lag gaya ki kya ho raha hai aur kyon ho raha hai , toh phir karein kya?”

Start praising your self for all the small, small, efforts you make on daily basis – stop judging yourself everyday cannot be the BEST DAY .

Some days might be low some high but it doesn’t mean you are to be blamed for your highs and lows no, never you are the best and remember nobody can put you down until and unless you wish to go down .

So stop thinking about yourself as a loser come out of that dungeon which has been created by you yourself.

 “Yatha drishti tatha Srishti“

It means how you see the world, world will appear to you in the same way.

Always remember the present moment is all you have, make the now your primary focus. So get up and get going you can and you will.

Switch your perceptions from, I am broken and helpless to I am growing and healing and see how fast your own self belief and confidence gets a boost.

Whenever you are sounding low in confidence always remember, who ever tries to bring you down is already below you,  so be happy and proud of yourself.

Everything is hard at the beginning before it is easy, you can get good with effort and practice.

Forget who hurt you yesterday but don’t forget who love you everyday. Forget the past that makes you cry, focus on the present that makes you smile. Forget the pain but never the lessons you have gained.

Sometimes those around you will not understand your life’s journey, but that’s ok obviously its not their path, it’s yours.

Still if you live for peoples ACCEPTANCE one day your self-confidence will die from their REJECTION.

So don’t worry about other peoples opinions about you. You are not here to impress everyone . people who believe in you will always be your side no matter what you do , they will keep on encouraging and applaud your victories.

You no longer have the need to  prove anything to anyone . you don’t need outside validation . you don’t need to tell your side of the story anymore.

Your peace is worth more than proving yourself to anyone.

“Diye ko phoonk markar bhujayaa jaa sakta hai , par  agarbatti ko nahin , kyon ki jo mehakta hai usseh bhujhaya nahin jaa sakta aur jalta hai who khud hi bhuj jaataa hai.”

CHEER UP

Be proud of who you are ? after all , you are not only a one in a million, you are once in a lifetime.

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